How to Cut Off That Loser For Good
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No woman should aspire to attend to the likes of a loser. And a loser, by definition, is someone who doesn’t have anything to offer but table scraps, maltreatment, and a stingy disposition towards love, respect, and trustworthiness. He’s no good because he has nothing to give because he, himself, is used up and worthless and has been put through the meat grinder. At least that’s the excuse he always makes for himself and ironically that’s the excuse a lot of women buy.
Women are fools to put faith in bums who denigrate them into specks of dust while expecting them to ante up any morsel of decency, when there isn’t a single resounding moral quality in their makeup. Men aren’t the only losers however, and I’ve covered that in “Real Men Don’t Marry Losers”, so don’t think this is personal attack on men and their entire species as a whole.
A good friend of mine and I discussed the other day how many women we know, who sit around and take verbal, emotional and even physical abuse from the men in their lives. It’s nothing short of sickening that certain women think of themselves in such a self-depreciative way that they’re willing to put up with being called names, being bossed around and being made to look like asses. For all the love in greener pastures, I can’t fathom how one would forsake her own sense of pride to place herself on the forefront of abuse.
Women can cut loose of the losers in their lives by making a resolve to change their situation for good. Women shouldn’t settle for crap when there are MANY MANY more appealing alternatives…
- Stand up for yourself!
Every time you resign to being reduced in size to anything that can swallowed up by a Venus Flytrap, your dignity is slowly ripped apart, seam by painful seam. Every time that bum you’re with tells you you’re nothing without him and that to make it out there in the world, you’d need thousands in plastic surgery, a smaller behind and 3/8 more of a cerebellum, he is exercising mind control and keeping you in your place. The place in which he can keep you feeble and pressed tightly under his thumb.
Any man who truly loves you isn’t going to treat you like a subservient useless little toy doll on a string. How would you feel if your sister or your best friend told you all the things he does? I’m certain, fists would go flying and all the windows and doors in the house would get a good old fashioned skull smashing. You’re unwilling to put up with it from other people, why put up with it from him?
In standing up for yourself, be frank and direct. Tell him you’re no longer going to tolerate it in an angerless non-emotional way. He must quit or you’re out, end of story. If he can’t hang with that, then let him hang himself out to dry. Let him figure it out on his own because he’ll need to without you. Chances are, he’ll never figure it out and he’ll keep doing it over and over again to every other woman whose willing to put up with it.
Depending on how far this guy is off his rocker, he may become enraged. Only you can decide how far he will go and you may have to call in reinforcements. Get your dad, your brother, or a few of your best girlfriends to assist. At any rate, make sure he knows it has to end or it’s the end of your rope. More than likely, the end is already here and it’s just what you need. He isn’t going to change because his abusive little boy pants have been tightly cemented in crap to his rear end for years.
- Get fed up and don’t look back.
If standing up for yourself doesn’t work, you’re going to have to get the eff out of dodge. And you have to make it your sheer determination to walk out forever without a smidgen of pseudo-hope or redemption. If you’ve already seen the handwriting on the wall and you know the only way you will get any peace is to leave, that’s when you know it’s really over.
There is a breaking point we all come to realize and if you’ve reached yours, you’ll know it without a shred of doubt. It’s either hell or high water and you’ll feel it because the decision to change your life will be as thunderous as dropping a lead block on your bare toes. That’s usually the only way that you can put an end to the lunacy and when we get fed up, that’s the last damned straw.
What is it going to take for you to get fed up? Do you have to be utterly humiliated, degraded and ashamed over and over and over again until you realize there’s nothing left in you but fury and scorn? Why do you have to arrive at such a painful place in order for it sink in?
You should’ve gotten fed up 6 years ago the first time he called you a nasty worthless c*nt and threw all your clothes out in the driveway in the rain, or the second time you caught him trying to put the moves on your best friend.
He’s no good and you know it. Why let him strip away every single thing you have?
- Love yourself and know that you deserve better.
Come to understand once and for all, the revelation that YOU AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE THE HIGHEST PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE. Never again let the voices in your head take over and tell you that signed up for abuse because this is what you deserve and it’s all you can get. Make the decision to end the cycle of abuse, not just from your abuser, but from the abuse you inflict on yourself.
Know deep down within you, all the way up to the surface, that you are in charge of your dignity and your worth and those things are precious to you. Never again let someone have control over your life in such a way that you are left to rot away in your own prison of hopelessness and despair. Leave that life behind and promise yourself you’ll believe in all the good that’s shining in you and demand that others do the same.
Men who are losers don’t have what it takes to change. They are sadistic control freaks who concentrate a lot of “power” in themselves by diabolically sucking the pride and self-love out of women. They tend to believe women don’t have a place except to serve them in a capacity which is beneath that of a dog. Is that what you are? A dog? Or a woman with feelings and a place in this world that is kind, safe and free of degradation?
It’s up to you to get rid of that loser. Do it for yourself because no one else will.